Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Common Factors in Lasting Marriages VS. Negative Factors that Undermine Marriage

From the February 15, 1993 Watchtower article: “Let Marriage Be Honorable Among All”

COMMON FACTORS IN LASTING MARRIAGES
  • Firm adherence to Bible principles
  • Both mates have a strong relationship with Jehovah
  • Husband respects his wife, her feelings and her opinions
  • Good communication on a daily basis
  • Seek to please each other
  • A sense of humor; able to laugh at oneself
  • Freely admit faults; freely forgive
  • Keep the romance alive
  • Be united in the raising and disciplining of children
  • Regularly uniting in prayer to Jehovah

NEGATIVE FACTORS THAT UNDERMINE MARRIAGE
  • Selfishness and obstinacy
  • Failing to do things together
  • Poor communication
  • Lack of adequate consultation between the spouses
  • Poor money management
  • Differences of criteria in dealing with children and/or stepchildren
  • Husband working late or neglecting family for other duties
  • Failure to care for family’s spiritual needs